ANAL PLAY GUIDE: BUTT PLUGS FOR BEGINNERS

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Butt plugs, one of the most sought-after and reviewed sex toys, often prompt numerous inquiries, necessitating this comprehensive Butt Plugs for Beginners Guide. While it includes some information about anal sex and the use of anal dildos, this guide predominantly focuses on plug-type toys.

What Are Butt Plugs?

Butt plugs, for the unacquainted, are specialized sex toys intended for insertion into the anus to provide sexual pleasure. They typically serve three main purposes:

  • Facilitating the dilation of muscles prior to, or in anticipation of, anal sex.
  • Enhancing pleasure and intensifying orgasm during masturbation or sexual intercourse.
  • Promoting continuous sexual stimulation and a state of arousal during extended wear at home or in public.

The design of butt plugs typically incorporates a tapered tip for easy insertion, a narrow neck for comfortable grip, and a flared base to prevent unintentional deeper insertion. They can offer an enjoyable experience for anyone, regardless of genital anatomy. During orgasm, the body’s natural reaction is to clench and release around the plug, amplifying the climax considerably.

Choosing Your First Butt Plug

First-time exploration of anal play can be intimidating. Fortunately, the use of a butt plug offers a more relaxed introduction, enabling solo experimentation to ascertain personal comfort. Moreover, butt plugs facilitate sexual self-expression and can satisfy a myriad of kink-related desires.

Butt plugs are available in a variety of shapes and sizes. Although it might be tempting to select the first visually appealing plug, beginners often err by choosing a size too large for initial use. Never overestimate your capacity! Start with a smaller plug, as even seasoned users typically begin a play session with a smaller size before transitioning to a larger one. Utilizing a plug that’s too large without adequate preparation could lead to anal tissue damage, possibly resulting in scars and diminished pleasure.

Ensure that your plug is smooth, with a tapered tip for easy insertion, and equipped with a substantial round flared or T-bar base to prevent unintended deep insertion. I frequently observe plugs with inadequate bases – such configurations are unsafe!

Lastly, consider the material of your plug. While many plugs are made of jelly-like substances, these materials are porous and can retain bacteria, posing potential health risks. The ideal materials for butt plugs are silicone, metal, and glass. Silicone, being cost-effective and easy to clean, is my preference. However, metal and glass plugs can offer the advantages of weight and temperature play, which are features not typically found in silicone plugs.

Remember to acquire suitable lubricant as the anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina. Ensure that your lubricant is compatible with the material of your selected butt plug – for example, silicone-based lubricants should not be paired with silicone plugs.

First-Time Use of a Butt Plug

Inserting a butt plug, especially for the first time, calls for patience, a good amount of lubricant, and a relaxed demeanour. Being comfortable and at ease eases the process significantly. Prior orgasm might contribute to increased relaxation. Start by applying lubricant liberally – a surplus of it is better than an insufficient amount. Excess lubricant will simply drip off, hence, keep tissues nearby. Not using enough could lead to discomfort or pain. Assume a comfortable posture – a popular choice is the doggy-style position, although lying on the back with buttocks elevated by a pillow or squatting are also viable alternatives.

Initial insertion may evoke a strange sensation, prompting an urge to remove the plug. If pain is absent, this feeling is merely your body adjusting. Lying down and focusing on relaxation is advised in this case. However, immediate removal is necessary if there is pain. When you start feeling comfortable, proceed with your plans.

Removal, much like insertion, requires relaxation and a slow, gentle approach. Muscular pushing similar to defecation can aid removal. Be prepared for potential fecal residue on the plug and have tissues at hand. Should there be prolonged discomfort, bleeding or pain upon removal, seek immediate medical help.

Sharing plugs between partners or across different orifices is strongly discouraged due to sanitary reasons. If unavoidable, thorough sterilization, achievable via boiling, is necessary for silicone, glass, and metal toys.

Extended Use of Butt Plugs

Despite seeming unusual to some, extended wear of anal plugs is favoured by many. Smaller plugs can feel comfortable and almost unnoticeable without active stimulation. The larger or heavier the plug, the more pronounced and pleasurable its presence during extended wear. Plugs can be worn in numerous contexts, from doing house chores to grocery shopping in public. Even without pleasure, wearing a plug can induce a kinky sensation. Regardless of comfort level, extended wear beyond 2-3 hours is not recommended, with lube reapplication needed every hour.

For prolonged usage, flat or T-bar bases are preferable. While metal toys are appreciated for their weight, the base could cause discomfort when sitting. Large bases or plugs could also feel obtrusive.

Exploring Other Anal Toys

Once acclimated to a smaller, starter plug, the world of anal play awaits you. Always begin play with your smaller plug, progressing to larger toys gradually to avoid injury.

So, what are your options?

  • Vibrating Butt Plug – A vibrating plug can add a new level of enjoyment. Typically made of silicone, these utilize bullet-vibe attachments for vibrations.
  • Rimming Plug – These plugs mimic rim jobs with rotating beads around the toy’s base. Some models vibrate and come with a remote control, perfect for those willing to invest a bit more for a unique experience.
  • Weighted Silicone Plugs – These merge the softness of silicone with the heaviness of metal, ideal for extended wear.
  • Fetish Plugs and Princess Plugs – These plugs have special bases, with Fetish Plugs featuring tail-like appendages and Princess Plugs sporting jewelled bases.
  • Anal Beads – A string of beads allows gradual size progression, the larger beads acting as a base to prevent unintentional further insertion. They differ from plugs in terms of length, capable of reaching into the colon.
  • Anal Dildos or Vibrators – Any flared-base dildo or vibrator can serve an anal function. Smaller, tapered options are recommended for beginners.
  • Inflatable Butt Plugs – As the name suggests, these plugs inflate while inside the user via a hand pump, accommodating a larger size than otherwise possible.
  • Male Prostate Toys – These resemble butt plugs but are curved for prostate stimulation and usually have a handle or ring rather than a flared base. They are not designed for extended wear.